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Which parent decides what school their children will attend?

On Behalf of | Jun 29, 2025 | Family Law |

Many things change for families with children when parents divorce. The entire family’s finances usually shift dramatically. The normal schedule for the family can change as well, as parents have to adjust to shared custody. In addition to sharing time with the children, they also need to work together to make reasonable decisions about their children’s upbringing. In some cases, parents may find themselves disagreeing intensely about the best decision to make given the circumstances.

What school children attend can affect their academic performance, social connections and mental health. When there are disputes about what school children should attend, who ultimately makes the final decision?

An agreement is often necessary

Technically, the address that served as the children’s primary residence typically determines what school district they attend. However, parents can enroll their children at a private school or even decide to homeschool them in some cases.

Generally speaking, parents who share custody share decision-making authority. They usually have to reach an agreement regarding major decisions, including school enrollment. Sometimes, parents can prevent future conflict by agreeing to grant one parent final authority on certain issues.

In scenarios where parents find themselves unable to agree on school enrollment, they may need to take the matter to family court. Judges can either modify custody orders or rule on specific disputes. Their priority is typically to act in the best interests of the children.

Evaluating the benefits and drawbacks of each option children have could help parents work together to settle their disagreements. Parents who understand the legal rules that govern shared custody can use that knowledge to better handle conflicts about parenting.